Comments on: Where are the Good (Black) Men at? http://blacksmythe.com/blog/2008/06/22/where-are-the-good-black-men-at/ Intellectual discussions on pressing issues Thu, 20 Nov 2008 17:53:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Mimia http://blacksmythe.com/blog/2008/06/22/where-are-the-good-black-men-at/#comment-20366 Mimia Sat, 02 Aug 2008 01:21:14 +0000 http://blacksmythe.com/blog/?p=470#comment-20366 Hey, this is all good to have good men in the fraternities. The majority of woman are not involved in fraternities and sororities. Many of us ma not have been apart of these groups. Also, many f us have professional careers and are passed by men that willing to invest as much as we are willing to invest also. At once you are educated you wannt someone to have your back and share romance with. You don't want a immature man that still is trying to figure things out. Once you become a woman you want to give some much and the lack of men out there aren't serious. No matter how educated and mature you are with many men you are side-pussy or a homegirl. Many females like myself have fallin short. And many are tired of being just that girl, girlfriend, FWB you never take seriously, and mother of your children (could have said baby moma, but this shows daily sacrifical respect). Men of all ethnic colors. Take your places, mature, and get the label of a gentlemen. Please... Steve Harvey get with Farnes Bentley and y'all right that book. Our men need some help. And for those who wonder about me. I am really sweet, down to earth, educated, and I have heart for people. Guys you need to wake up. Please... Wake-up. Man?! Y'all i didn't mean to sound like "School Daze." LOL Hey, this is all good to have good men in the fraternities. The majority of woman are not involved in fraternities and sororities. Many of us ma not have been apart of these groups. Also, many f us have professional careers and are passed by men that willing to invest as much as we are willing to invest also. At once you are educated you wannt someone to have your back and share romance with. You don’t want a immature man that still is trying to figure things out. Once you become a woman you want to give some much and the lack of men out there aren’t serious. No matter how educated and mature you are with many men you are side-pussy or a homegirl. Many females like myself have fallin short. And many are tired of being just that girl, girlfriend, FWB you never take seriously, and mother of your children (could have said baby moma, but this shows daily sacrifical respect). Men of all ethnic colors. Take your places, mature, and get the label of a gentlemen. Please… Steve Harvey get with Farnes Bentley and y’all right that book. Our men need some help.
And for those who wonder about me. I am really sweet, down to earth, educated, and I have heart for people. Guys you need to wake up. Please… Wake-up. Man?! Y’all i didn’t mean to sound like “School Daze.” LOL

]]> By: Andre http://blacksmythe.com/blog/2008/06/22/where-are-the-good-black-men-at/#comment-19987 Andre Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:38:24 +0000 http://blacksmythe.com/blog/?p=470#comment-19987 Hey Doc, Unfortunately, the "bad" men have been nominated as the most coveted group in the world by women. Somewhere down the road, being the "good" man has inexplicably been translated into being boring, predictable, and average; apparently not qualities that appeal to women folk. Being of the single variety myself, whenever I hear a woman tell me that I'm "...a good guy, but..." I brace myself. I'm about to receive the kiss of death. Hey Doc,

Unfortunately, the “bad” men have been nominated as the most coveted group in the world by women. Somewhere down the road, being the “good” man has inexplicably been translated into being boring, predictable, and average; apparently not qualities that appeal to women folk. Being of the single variety myself, whenever I hear a woman tell me that I’m “…a good guy, but…” I brace myself. I’m about to receive the kiss of death.

]]> By: The Good Doctor http://blacksmythe.com/blog/2008/06/22/where-are-the-good-black-men-at/#comment-19939 The Good Doctor Sun, 22 Jun 2008 23:24:49 +0000 http://blacksmythe.com/blog/?p=470#comment-19939 malik there are enough single sisters looking that i think it is a fair question. and even if it is just a "class" thing, class is real. but craig gets to the heart of it. given where we're going a "good black man" is about to mean something TOTALLY different than what it means now. malik there are enough single sisters looking that i think it is a fair question. and even if it is just a “class” thing, class is real.

but craig gets to the heart of it. given where we’re going a “good black man” is about to mean something TOTALLY different than what it means now.

]]> By: Malik http://blacksmythe.com/blog/2008/06/22/where-are-the-good-black-men-at/#comment-19938 Malik Sun, 22 Jun 2008 23:20:42 +0000 http://blacksmythe.com/blog/?p=470#comment-19938 To me, the premise of the question is suspect. The implication is that good Black men are the exception. To me, the premise of the question is suspect. The implication is that good Black men are the exception.

]]> By: cnulan http://blacksmythe.com/blog/2008/06/22/where-are-the-good-black-men-at/#comment-19937 cnulan Sun, 22 Jun 2008 23:18:31 +0000 http://blacksmythe.com/blog/?p=470#comment-19937 Wait till those shifts kick in in earnest brah - and whole buncha presently "good" Black men get dislodged from their make-work cubicles out onto these here skreets and have to figure out how to hustle...., Wait till those shifts kick in in earnest brah - and whole buncha presently “good” Black men get dislodged from their make-work cubicles out onto these here skreets and have to figure out how to hustle….,

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